Thursday, May 31, 2007

Happy Birthday to Me

Yesterday we celebrated my birthday (May 30th) here with family in South Africa. Back when we were first planning this trip, I knew I wanted to celebrate my birthday with my family here - that's why we did the trip in May! I started my day by waking up from a dream, and then writing down my intentions for the day:

My intentions on my power day. Let me endeavor to be conscious and non reactive. Give people space to be. Express compassion and feel love. Deep love. Sense my own depth, and not take myself too seriously. Always see the good in others, and strive to reveal that good.

I spent the morning writing emails to friends and family, and also playing around with my facebook profile. I also had a nice Skype with Michele (who is thoroughly enjoying having our dad there in BC).

relighting the candles...In the afternoon I went with Mum, Auntie Sarojini and Uncle Raymond and Thanusha, and Auntie Joan, to the Sun Coast Casino. Auntie Saroj had baked me a lovely cake, and had brought a bottle of wine. We ate at Center Court, and I must say, for a buffet place, the food was remarkably good. I especially enjoyed all the Afrikaaner meat dishes, including various lamb ribs and pork, and their curries were good too... After, the cake was brought out with a sparkler on it. Here they sing happy birthday after you blow out the candles - a little different than what I am used to. I let the sparkler run out and cut the cake, and then we had to actually light the candles so that I could blow them out... in the end, I got a bunch of presents, including a wire basket, and Gandhi's autobiography. Thank you! You can see some pictures from the celebration here.

After, Thanusha and I went to see "Pirates of the Carribean." Visually, the movie was literally stunning, in that I felt stunned. I must say that as my interest in and commitment to non-violence deepens, I find I am getting less and less out of these kinds of movies. It was interesting to get reconnected with mainstream American culture, which seems more apocalyptic and violent than ever. Still, it was nice to see Kiera Knightly dashing all over in her bustier, and I did enjoy the more psychedelic moments in the movie. After the movie, Christine showed up briefly to wish me a happy birthday, and then we made our way home. We ended the day back here at the cottage, and I had a nice phone call with Sharmeen, who is back home in BC.

Our interview this morning has been canceled, due to poor health of our interviewee, which is too bad. Still, it's nice to have a bit of an extended break. We still have a lot to do, and less than a week left! I am looking forward to a bigger birthday party on Sunday, with Auntie Carol and her family, over at my cousin Josephine's place.

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Non-Violent Resistance to Violent Crime in South Africa

Having spent 3 weeks here in South Africa, it is clear to me that one of South Africa's biggest problems is violent crime. The most pernicious form of which involves shocking acts of cruelty reminiscent of Stanley Kubrick's film "A Clockwork Orange." There was an example in the paper of a white man who was stripped naked by thugs who then crazy-glued his exercise bike and made him sit on the bike, and then proceeded to crazy glue this mouth shut and rob him. Attacks like these induce fear and revulsion in the population, and lead to a sense of hopelessness and despair.

How are people responding to South Africa's crime problem? My observation is that there has been an explosion of security firms. This has led to the employment of many people, including many Africans, and at best, has created tiny islands of safety, e.g., the Gateway Mall outside of Durban is a place where people of all races can come together in security. Similarly, people with money have walls around their houses, which are then protected by locks and "armed response" teams. The end result is that people of means are relatively safe in their homes, and criminals now rob them in their drive ways, or car jack them, or somehow catch them in transit. It must be remembered that many poor South African's are also victims of violent crime, and indeed, South Africa is purported to have the highest incidence of reported rape in the world.

I have been reading Richard Gregg's "The Power of Non-Violence," which has helped me to better understand the principles of Satyagraha. And, I've also become very interested in Marshall Rosenberg's Non-Violent Communication. Both approaches maintain that you cannot solve any problem at the level of the problem. A violent response to thugs only serves to reinforce the idea that problems can be solved through violence. In a sense, you are agreeing with the criminals, that might really does make right. The increased security approach is already showing its limitations, and it is clear that it will never solve the security problem in South Africa, or it might do so by returning South Africa to a police state.

There is now an opportunity to explore alternative approaches to reducing violent crime in South Africa. One such approach would involve a Satyagraha campaign aimed at discrediting the use of violence to achieve economic means, and instead, supporting individuals in finding non-violent ways to meet their own needs for economic and personal security, as well as their needs for meaning, and self-respect.

This is a tall order, but it is no more difficult than other non-violent struggles that have been attempted, either here in South Africa against the white racist government, or elsewhere (e.g., against the British in India, against the Nazis in the Netherlands, against racist whites in the Southern United States). The only difference is that the people whose minds we are trying to change are not part of any government and they are not in charge, although many are part of organized crime syndicates operating within the country.

Before we can begin to articulate a plan for a Satyagraha campaign against violent crime, it is important to understand the psychology of our opponent. An important tool in disarming our opponents is empathy. I would argue that the men who stripped that man of his clothes and crazy glued him to his bicycle seat, have, themselves, suffered from feelings of being emasculated and rendered helpless and voiceless. From this perspective, their violent act can be seen as a tragic attempt to seek empathy, in this case, by victimizing someone else. As such, an important part of our strategy must be to give our opponent empathy, in an attempt to help them remember their humanity (by treating them like human beings instead of enemies), and help them recover their sanity.

Another aspect we must address is youth thug (or Tsotsi) culture. As in the United States, violent gang culture has been celebrated, and becomes for its participants an identity. Gang members form an identity for themselves that is based on being bad and violent and tough. When newspapers criticize the acts of "violet criminals," this only serves to reinforce their identity as bad people. This is just another form of ego inflation, but in this case organized around being the baddest and the toughest, and the most unfeeling. It is important to remember that this identity is only a persona, and not who the person really is. Change will hinge on helping people disidentify with this identity as a gangster, and helping them instead realize their own capacity for feelings of vulnerability and love.

It also goes without saying that the vast majority of criminals who are commiting these crimes are young black men. In this way, this Satyagraha would be different than previous campaigns, because the people whose minds we are trying to change have been traditionally disempowered and disadvantaged. As such, this campagin may require different tools of passive resistance and active non-violent communication.

Progress will depend in part on getting past enemy imagery, and seeing the humanity of our opponent, but what then? The next step involves identifying opportunities for contact with violent criminals, and then creating situations where the power of non-violence can be used to maximum advantage. Let me explore some possible leverage points:

1) Prisoners. South Africa has many violent criminals in prison. Instead of judging these people, and reinforcing their identity as the "worst of the worst," which just plays into their egos, and reinforces a culture of violence and retributive justice, we could instead adopt methods pioneered by Kiran Bedi, who reformed the infamous Tihar jail in India. I would propose an active campaign that provided empathy for prisoners, vipassana meditation, education and vocational training, as well as training as Satyagrahis. Even a handful of Satyagrahis taken from the ranks of South African jails could have a massive impact on this struggle. No one understands the motivations of gangsters better than the gangsters themselves. These gangsters cum Satyagrahis would then be in the best position to provide for a coordinated Satyagraha campaign to target communities.

2) Transforming Victim Consciousness. Part of the campaign should also focus on developing Satyagraha among the ordinary population. Gandhi maintained that Satyagraha requires courage, and a willingness to suffer, and a desire to change the mind and heart of the attacker without inflicting suffering on them.

How can we confront violent criminals in a non-violent way that communicates self-respect and respect for the attacker, without taking foolish risks? The answer will require more research, and I think it will involve Non-Violent Communication, and a delicate balance between asserting one's right to personal and economic safety and a willingness to let go of one's personal possessions. This idea could be extended even further: a willingness on the part of wealthy South Africans to embrace voluntary simplicity and live with less, and instead invest in strategies for making sure that everyone's needs get met, including the need for economic and personal security for all.

3) Youth. There are already many programs aimed at "at-risk" youth in South Africa. These programs could be strengthened, and students could be taught Non-Violent Communication skills, as well as educational and vocational skills. Personally, I am very interested in initiatives aimed at increasing internet access to disadvantaged areas.

4) Children. I am particularly interested in training youth to in turn train children in Non-Violent Communication. This, along with access to education and opportunity, can help South Africans create a peaceful and prosperous nation.

5) Positive Visions of the Future. Finally, I think it is important to put our energy into developing positive visions of the future we want to manifest, instead of energizing our fears. With so much mineral and agricultural wealth, and with a solid infrastructure and roads, and with only 44 million people, it should be possible to create a safe and prosperous South Africa. This would be a country that ensured economic and personal security for all its citizens, as well as ample room for personal autonomy and expression, including linguistic and cultural diversity. South Africa is a microcosm of the same problems that are facing the rest of the world, and as such, there are many allies all over the world seeking to solve these challenges through non-violent means.

Monday, May 28, 2007

Back from Mariannhill

Jesus HeartMum and I made a trip with Harold and Thanusha out to Mariannhill today (now the Missionaries of Mariannhill), to meet with Father Henry. We had a good visit, and I found Father Henry to be quite warm, and full of good stories.

We have a story that Vincent Lawrence and Gandhi walked out to Mariannhill together, back when it was still a Trappist Monastery. Apparently Gandhi had planned to write an article critical of missionary Christians, but he was so impressed by the piety, vegetarianism, and industry of the Trappist monks, that he scrapped the article. Things changed in 1909, when Rome ordered that the monastery should be changed into a mission. Even so, they are still involved in schools, skills training, and Mariannhill has become the largest diocese in South Africa outside of Johannesberg, so they've been quite successful at converting people to Catholicism.

ken teaches AV skillsI took a bunch of pictures and also shot video. As usual, my video camera was a big hit with the kids, and I've got the video to prove it! I let the kids film their own video, and that resulted in children literally doing back flips for the camera! I also have some video of the kids and I dancing and clapping. It's clear to me that these children come from a strong musical and rhythmic tradition, and that their sense of music and rhythm is very sophisticated, especially when compared to my own.

Franz PfannerLater, we shot the interview with Father Henry, and we got to see some of the archives. I have been particularly impressed by the founder of Mariannhill, Franz Pfanner: he sounds like he was quite the charismatic leader, original thinker, and man of God (in the best sense of the phrase). I also learned a bit about Bernard Huss, who was quite active in promoting self-sufficiency among African peoples in the region, and has been described as a kindered spirit of Gandhi's (although they never met in person).

You can see all my pictures from today here.

No rest for the weary: weekend in review

Today we're about to head out to Marian Hill Monestary, which was a big source of inspiration for Gandhi, especially around the creation of his intentional communities, like Phoenix. This has been a busy weekend, and I am looking forward to having a more relaxed visit to the Monastery. On Friday night we Skyped Christina and Dad, back in Waterloo. Dad was scheduled to fly to Vancouver on Sunday, and so we are now waiting to hear back from him.

cross cross moonOn Saturday we made a trip to City Hall, where Mum had given an address years ago, during the height of apartheid, to the Catholic Youth of Durban. It was a gutsy thing for the Church to do at the time: Archbishop Hurley was on the stage, and Mum wore a white sari. Later, we visited St. Anthony's Church. Vincent Lawrence was instrumental in founding St. Anthony's, and many of my relatives here were educated in the adjacent school. Finally, we made a trip to Durban's Botanical Gardens, most of which was off-limits to Indians during Apartheid. We ended Saturday night with a celebration of Graeme's birthday. The family had organized a typical South African "braai," and, in Indian fashion, the men were all outside around the bri, and the women were largely inside. The food was fabulous.

Hassam in the libraryOn Sunday we interviewed Hassam Seedat. Mr. Seedat was an anti-apartheid activist, and also has an extensive Gandhi library. After the interview, he was good enough to show me his amazing Cycad garden. He even showed me how to propagate these rare plants. We also looked at a number of pictures, including of him and Farida, when they got married, as well as a picture of his newborn son, taken when Mr. Seedat was in prison for his anti-apartheid activities (he saw his newborn son for the first time in prison).

You can see all the pictures from this weekend here.

Friday, May 25, 2007

Two weeks down: two to go

Well, we've finished up another week here in Durban, which leaves us just under two weeks to go... After a slow start, with no land line, and a multitude of small obstacles, we've now actually made some good progress: so far I've shot 15 hours of footage, and I've expect to shoot another 15 hours, all to make a 30 minute documentary!

Harold looks onThis morning, Harold and I went to the West St. Cemetery, to document the Lawrence grave. We were both shocked to see the Lawrence gravestone knocked over, and lying on the ground! To make matters worse, Harold's parents' gravestone (i.e., the Joseph gravestone) was also on the ground... I can only imagine how he felt. Harold made a call, and I am confident that this will be sorted out before we leave. I'm glad Mamma wasn't there with us: she would have had a conniption to see the Lawrence gravestone all tossed over on its side. I mean, Mum had her box of Lawrence documents put in the bank vault before we left Canada!

into the casbahAfterwards, we went to the Emanuel Cathedral, where Vincent Lawrence went every day for mass at 6 o'clock in the morning, having said his prayers at 3 o'clock in the morning... I find it hard to imagine this level of commitment to Catholicism, and clearly, his faith ran deep. After, we walked across the street to the Madressa Arcade, where Lawrence had an office for many years. I enjoyed being in the bazaar, and I was also glad to have Harold there, watching my back as I shot all sorts of footage with my video camera. I really enjoy spending time with Harold: he's full of colorful commentary and good stories, and I felt confident that he'd be able to take care of any trouble.

Dr. Brain's bookAfterwards, Mum, Harold, and I went out to Kloof to visit Dr. Joy Brain, who has written a book on Catholic Indians in Natal. It was interesting to get out to a white area, and to cross the color line, as it were. We had a lively discussion that ranged from Catholicism, the nature of faith and conversion, to life in the new South Africa.

African Friday Five

This weeks friday five is all about Africa...

1. What is your favorite African food?

2. What is your favorite place in Africa?

3. What is your favorite African animal?

4. What is your favorite African music?

5. What is your favorite African language?

Thursday, May 24, 2007

Phoenix Rising

gandhi statueWell, back in October, I made a cardboard Phoenix Egg for the WRJ Halloween parade, that my friends dutifully burned on my behalf. So, it's interesting for me to have spent the day at Gandhi's Phoenix Settlement here in South Africa. This settlement too, was burned to the ground, during the apartheid government inspired race riots of 1985, and is in the midst of its own rebirth...

The family stories tell us that Vincent and Josephine Lawrence came here to Phoenix Settlement back when it was first getting started. Here, people of different faiths and cultures prayed together outside, and worked together in community. Gandhi's house was called Sarvodaya, which means "welfare for all." Apparently, my grandmother Naidoo remembered being bounced on Kellenbach's knee when she was a little girl.

children 2The visit to Phoenix was really special. We had talked about going there when we were back in Canada, and I am glad that we made it. I took a bunch of photos, which you can see here. Our tour guide was a Mr. Bongani, who was very patient with all our filming, and vain attempts to find the foundation stone with Vincent Lawrence's name on it. We also got to meet Thobeka, a teacher at the school that is now at the settlement. While I was filming, the kids got out of school, and they were all fascinated by my video camera. I think this might have been my favorite part. At one point, Harold suggested that the kids sing a song. The kids were understandably reluctant to do so. So, I went and joined them on camera, and we sang the only song I figured we'd both know: Happy Birthday. Of course, I am celebrating my birthday at the end of the month, and so, it was fun to celebrate in this way.

Ila Gandhi and Auntie Francie

The Power of Non-ViolenceYesterday mum and I went over to Currie's Fountain sports field, which used to be an active site of Indian political activity and organization. We were over there to interview Ila Gandhi, Mahatma Gandhi's grand daughter. She is actively involved in the Satyagraha movement, and has started a paper in South Africa called Satyagraha. We had a lovely interview with her, and I picked up a copy of "The Power of Non-Violence."

Afterwards, we went for lunch with Auntie Francie and Auntie Maureen. Auntie Francie made a huge and lovely banquet for us! We got to review the Gabriel family tree, and heard about the "juicy bits" from the treasure trove of family stories. I am intrigued not only by Vincent Lawrence, but also by Ammonee, my great great grandmother. She came to South Africa as a passenger Indian when she was 13 years old, with her cousin. She had two children out of wedlock: one with an Indian soldier, and another with the local magistrate (she was his housekeeper). Eventually, she married Perumal Gabriel, my great great grandfather, and had another 8 kids with him! I am discovering that my ancestors are a varied and colorful lot. There are lots of family stories, with a whole diversity of life paths, including both success and tragedy.

I've taken a bunch of pictures, which you can see here.

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Progress...

Naidoo FamilyI've posted some pics from our last few days here. On Sunday we had a lovely dinner at my Uncle Cyril's and Auntie Kogi's house. Auntie Kogi made some lovely food, including pickled fish and lamb biryani. I borrowed some of Uncle Cyril's prize pictures of my grandfather Naidoo, and my great grandfather Naidoo (Marayan Naidoo, pictured here on the left, with his wife from the Cape, Minimal Cecilia). The day before we made a trip to my grandmother and grandfather Naidoo's grave. We visited a number of different sites, and I shot a bunch of video, including Resistance Park in Durban.

Yesterday we visited the documentary center over at the Westville campus. We came across an interesting family tree for the Gabriel family, which we think was done by my Auntie Maureen Gabriel. We'll have a chance to discuss this with her tomorrow. There was precious little on Vincent Lawrence. He's the main reason we are here. He served with Gandhi in the Volunteer Indian Ambulance Corps during the Anglo-Boer War, and helped keep the Natal Indian Congress going while Gandhi was off in the Transvaal. We also have a picture that we think includes Vincent Lawrence bidding farewell to Gandhi, before Gandhi's return to India. See below.

Indian Volunteer Ambulance CorpsFarewell to Gandhi


Today Mum and I did our first interview with Dr. Goolam Vahed. Previously, we had done a lot of informal interviews. Anyway, it felt good to make this start. Dr. Vahed has also been looking at Christian Indians in South Africa for a chapter in his new book. He had a bunch of information on the Gabriel Family that I still need to go through...

Tomorrow we are scheduled to see Ila Gandhi, Mahatma Gandhi's grand daughter. And in the afternoon we'll see my mum's Auntie Franci. We'll have lunch, and a chance to interview Auntie Franci and Maureen, on the Gabriel side of the family.

Friday, May 18, 2007

Today I went for a walk

I've been going a little stir crazy hanging out with Mum in the cottage, so this morning I went for a walk around the UKZN campus, while listening to E. Tolle. I took a few pictures of the environs, which you can see here.

Friday Five

While I'm trying to not worry too much about Dad, I figure I might as well post a Friday Five. This is something we used to do on the uvScene. Here are some questions that have come up based on my research into the family back here:

1. Are you part of an extended family?

2. Is there any mixed ancestry in your family?

3. Any family secrets that you've recently discovered?

4. How important is it to remember your ancestors?

5. Are you doing anything to remember them?

News from Home

I tried calling my Dad this afternoon (morning back in Canada) and I was unable to reach him. So I tried again, and then again. And then I started to worry. Anyway, I just got an email from my brother-in-law, Vijay, saying that Dad was taken to the hospital today. It doesn't sound too bad: just a urinary tract infection. Thanks to Mona for taking him to the hospital, and Michele for checking up on him (during her drive back to BC from the Moab desert), and thanks also to Vijay for letting us know what was going on. I'll try calling later tonight to Grand River Hospital in KW to see how he's doing. Dad was scheduled to fly tomorrow to BC, and I'm not sure how this is going to impact his travel plans.

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Documents

box of artifactsThe other day, Ian (my mum's cousin's son), brought over a box of memorabilia from Auntie May, Ian's grandmother. I am about to go through the box with mum, and take pictures of all the documents. It is sobering to see a person's life reduced to a box full of memorabilia... it reminds me of the impermanence of form.

gandhi comic coverMy Auntie Joan sent us a copy of a "Gandhi in South Africa" comic, put together by the folks at Tolstoy's Farm. Tolstoy's Farm was an intentional community that Gandhi founded near Johannesberg. It sounds like the community is now just fields, but there are plans for a tourist and teaching center. The comic is part of an effort to teach regular South Africans about the role Gandhi played in the struggle, and about the birth of Non-Violence (Satyagraha) here in South Africa. Of course, I am partial to comics as a form of expression, ever since the founding of the Center for Cartoon Studies in WRJ VT, so I was interested to see this!

comic spread 2

Harold was also good enough to drop off Auntie Baby's scrapbook. I went through it last night and took pictures of all the pages. Auntie Baby's real name was Francesca Lawrence and she was married to Michael Joseph. She was a trained singer, and performed in many different musicals. I came across some great pictures of my 2nd cousin once-removed Rosemary, whom I visited in the UK back in 1989. There is also an interesting picture of my grand uncle, George Lawrence, in a group called the "Jazz Bandits" - I am sure that my brother-in-law Vijay Iyer will be amused to hear this! Finally, I found a goofy picture of me and my family from my graduation from the KW Bilingual School! I've included it here for you amusement.

Ken's KW Bilingual School Graduation

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Tuesday Pics

flower off a tree at UKZN campusI've finally uploaded some pictures onto my Flickr from here. I have to pay for my bandwidth with the cellular modem we're using, so it looks like I'll only be uploading a dribble, instead of the usual torrent of pics. Somehow I haven't managed to get a picture of Auntie Joan, and I will endeavor to rectify that as soon as possible!

Yesterday we went out in the morning with Auntie Saroj, Uncle Raymond, and my cousin Thanusha. Auntie Saroj has been a huge help, driving us all over the place without complaint. We needed to cash some traveler's checks, which took a long time. I find traveler's checks more of a hassle than a help these days, and usually prefer to go with my ATM card. Anyway, I did manage to get some traditional South African bunny chow at the end of the day, which consists of curry in a bread bowl, so I was happy about that. Later, it was back to the cottage, with my mother's second cousin (yes - that's what it's like being in an extended family!), Ian Lazarus, coming by to drop off a trunk of memorabilia from my Grand Auntie May.

This morning I woke up feeling a bit blue. Perhaps the isolation of being stuck in the cottage is getting to me. With the security situation being the way it is, I sometimes feel like I am under house arrest. I imagine a lot of people feel that way. Perhaps things are not as bad as people say, but it still makes sense to be cautious... I've also been coordinating with people back home on the Haidawood project, and it's due today, so hopefully that will all get sent off okay. It's out of my hands, so what will be will be.

My mum's cousin Harold came by today, and took us out to Gateway. No, it's not the computer company: apparently it is the largest shopping mall in the Southern Hemisphere. The place was huge and very well appointed, and very first world. I felt like I could have been in Texas or Arizona. This was quite a contrast from the central business district of Durban, which is now looking much more African and third world, although not really bad at all.

I did my first taping of an "interview" today for the Lawrence Project. Really, it was just mom and Harold talking. I used the wide angle lens, 'cause they were sitting so far apart. I'll have to upload the footage and take a look. There was a lot of good information exchanged, and it gave me some hope for this project. If I can just get 6-10 interviews, and shoot some B-roll footage at the various historical locations we've identified, and if we can do all this without getting into trouble, well, then we should be in good shape for a "standard" type of documentary.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Mother's Day

lawrencecomic.jpgToday is mother's day, and of course I'm here in South Africa with "Mamma." I made her this little comic as a mother's day card.

Today we went out with Uncle Raymond, Auntie Saroj, and Thanusha, for lunch out at Wilson's Warf. The food was only so-so, but the people there were very nice, and we had a lovely view of the water, etc. We also made a short trip to the Musgrave Center, to get some supplies. Mum and I are back at the cottage now. We made a brief call to Dad, and mum just got off the phone with my cousin Hyacinthia. Unfortunately we seem to have run out of time on the cell phone, so we are back to being incommunicado for now...

We still need to figure out a car, and possibly arrange for some kind of security for some of the shoots. Our relatives have warned us about the dangers of crime, and so it only makes sense to proceed cautiously.

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Arrived in South Africa

After a 2 day trip, Mum and I have finally arrived here in South Africa. We were delighted to have Uncle Raymond, Auntie Sarojini, my cousin Thanusha, and Aunti Joan all there to meet us. From the airport, we were whisked away to the University of Kwa-Zulu Natal. We've arranged to stay at a cottage here during our one-month visit to South Africa.

I was exhausted the first day, and spent most of the time catching up on sleep. Friday was better, and Auntie Saroj was good enough to drive us all over, helping me get a cell phone, printer, and cell modem. So, now we are more-or-less all hooked-up. We are still waiting for our land line to come through: there seems to be a problem with that. And we've still got to figure out a car to get around. We're concerned about the security situation here, so that is a big consideration.

Today we totally slept in. I woke up thinking it was 10 am, only to discover that it was more like 1 pm! Anyway, Mum and I have spent the day organizing our things, and making phone calls and the like. It's clear that we'll need to make good use of our time if we're going to accomplish everything we want to, before we leave on June 8th.